I have lost count of the number of times I have masterbated in the last 4 days...I'm exhausted, excited, happy, weak, and wanting more. So much more.....just like Ana. The story being told in 50 Shades of Grey has completely captured my attention (any my libido for that matter). I'm aware that I have a very active sexual appetite, and if you have read anything I've written before you know this also. I'm horny. All the time. Reading this book however has taken me to a place so beyond horny that I am completely lost in pleasure and desire.
E L James has managed to tell a story that is sexy, scandalous, relatable and naughty. She has made thousands squirm in their beds as they read about kinky fuckery and wanting "more". Everyone is talking about this book and for those who don't get it, or even for those who do but are ashamed to say so, I'm here to explain why I think we are all falling for Christian Grey. There are two sides to this story: sex and love.....both perfectly entwined together.
Sex. So many thoughts come to mind when people mention this subject. There are two ends of the spectrum and everything in between. You have those who might not have a sexual need and those, like me, who think about it all the time. This book describes so many dark and twisted parts of sex that is has made readers shudder. I find it delightful. 50 Shades has opened the door for such a wonderfully naughty subject to be approached.
Sex should be beautiful, passionate, holy, soft, sacred, and slow. Sex should also be hot, sweaty, kinky, fun, hard, and fast. If you have ever been in a situation where you have gotten to experience "fucking" instead of "making love" then you know just how incredible it can be. I'm not here to say that all the pain described in this book is for everyone, because it's not. What is for everyone is the passionate display and carnal desire to be brought to the edge of something so glorious as an orgasm. I would bet on the fact that even those out there who are not as sexual as me have at one point in life considered what it would be like to be thrown onto a bed, tied to its posts, and brought to ecstasy. It's not about pain, or submission. It's about letting go of control, not having to think and just doing as your told. We try so hard in our lives to take the lead and be on top and in control that sometimes it would be nice to come home to a sexy man who would tell me exactly what to do and how he likes it. Knowing that you have pleased someone in that way is hot and can make you feel like a goddess. Sometimes something so wrong can turn into something so right. We have all woken up delightfully sore after a night of sensational sex. Is is so wrong to want a man say to you "Every time you move tomorrow, I want you to be reminded that I've been here"? Ana and Christian have given us sex to dream about and masterbate to.
Love. It is a common notion that women are attracted to the bad guy. "Nice guys" all over the world claim they come in last. As a single women who loves family time, church, AND hot sex I have struggled to find someone who appreciates all sides of me. I have found that I attract men who love the intellectual and family oriented girl, but I feel that I cannot be the sexual women I want to be with them. On the other hand there are those with whom I try to be myself and flirty and open about sex and they turn out to be the ones who want to call at midnight and come over but are soon gone before the sun rises. Where is the happy medium? Where is the man that I can run off to the boathouse with and let him take me in whatever way he sees fit before we walk back into my parents house to finish dinner? I want to make love, and I want to fuck. Is that so wrong?
I am a couple of chapters into the third book in the series and I am so happy and turned on. Ana has done what to this point I can only dream about...she has found someone who she can have both sides with. She has found both the bad boy and the nice guy all rolled into one sweet and sexy package. She can make love one minute and the next be cuffed and fucked. These books do not disgust me, or embarrass me. They give me hope that what has always seemed out of my reach might be possible. This is not your typical Disney or Hollywood fairytale. It is so much.....more.
